Tips for Romancing Foreign Women |

Write to several women - The more women you write to, the better your chances of finding your dream lady.
Initially, I wrote to six or eight women that I was intersted in learning more
about. I think I received replies from all except one. I wrote a second letter
to all of the women that replied, but I had already narrowed the field in my mind.
Besides Claudia, there was a Russian lady that I wrote and I was interested
in learning more about her. However, after four or five letters, she asked me
if I would send money so that she could buy her daughter shoes.
I felt like I wanted to help her out, but I decided it was best if I stopped
writing to her. By now, I was head over heels for Claudia. |

Look for Ladies that Have Similar Interests - One of the reasons I wrote to each of the ladies that I did was, that there was
a similar interest, hobby, like or dislike. I became intersted in Claudia from
the very first time I read her profile was that she described herself as a positive
and spiritual person. I have since found out that these characteristics are
very much part of her personality. She has influenced me in my thinking since
we have been together. Other intersts of hers are walking and nature, also interests of mine. Now that we are together, we talk long walks together through the forests of Georgia. When the weather warms in the spring, we plan to go camping in the mountains, one of my favorite past times. |

Send Flowers or Gifts - The single most important thing I did to win Claudia's heart in the beginning was
to send an arrangement of roses. She was so surprised that I was able to find her house in the small town that she
lives in. Of course, I just ordered the flowers on the internet and the agency
finds a local shop to deliver them I sent flowers to Claudia on several occasions, and I was surprised at how inexpensive they are in Colombia. You can send an arrangement of a dozen roses for about $40 US or seasonal flowers for even less. It was well woth the investment. In fact, I bring her flowers here at home at least once a week and she loves me for it. Sometimes the little things can make a big difference ! |
Learn a few words and phrases of her language - There is absolutely no dought that you will have an easier time getting to know each
other if she speaks at least some English. I wrote a few times to the Russian
lady and was able to communicate fairly well, but when I called her the first
time, I saw what a problem it would be getting to know someone with the handicap
of not speaking the language. The translation service that the agency
offers is great for breaking the ice, but unless your lady is studying English
or you her language, it's going to be tough in the beginning. Claudia absolutely loved it when I learned a few of the romantic terms of her language. For example, "mi amor" for My Love, "mi cielo" for My Blue Sky, "mi vida" for Love of My Life, "mi reina" for My Queen, "mi corazon" for My Sweetheart, "presiosa" for Precious and "besos e abrazos" for Hugs & Kisses. In fact, I got alot of use, and still do, from the Spanish language guide that I bought. |

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Send Nice Photos - Looks are not everything but your chosen lady will want to see what you look like.
After all, you have seen at least on photo of hers from the web site. Choese
a photo the represents you well. For example, if you enjoy the outdoors, send a
photo of you hiking or camping in the woods. If you enjoy scuba diving,
send a photo of you on a boat in your diving gear. Choose two or three of your
best photos initially, and as you receive replies, you can send additional pictures.
Digital cameras now make it very easy to take and send good photos by e-mail. |
Some other Good Tips - Keep good records- If you write to several ladies, keep copies of the letters. In my case, I used the same letter initially, and just changed the name. Don't make the same mistake I did on one letter and leave the wrong lady's name on a letter you sent to a different woman. That took some explaining. Do not send money - There are honest and there are dishonest people in the world. Most of the women will not ask you to send money, but there are a few that will. In my case, I did send a little money to Claudia, but only after we had been communicating for several weeks.. And I was the one who initaited it by offering to send a little money so she could you the internet cafe more frequequently to write me. Don't place too much emphasis on the woman's photos - Of course you are looking for an attractive woman, but one photo does not tell the whole story. In my case, Claudia's photo on the internet was very nice, but when I met her in person, her photos didn't do her justice. She is much prettier in person than I had expected. Wow! Most importantly - Be patient. The first or second or maybe even your third choice to write too may not be that special lady for you. There are many sincere women out there that want to meet a man like you. Keep trying until you find the perfect lady for you. For this reason, you may want to consider the Romance Tours, since this gives you the opportunity to meet dozens of women at one time. Sometimes, that is the best starting point. |